"It just takes time."
~Everyone you will ever meet.
That is the saying that everyone hates to hear, but is very true.
Life ,as I have repeated many times before, is very complicated in the eyes of both girls and guys. We all want to be on top, to be happy, and to live without a care or regret. But we all know very well, that it is just short of being impossible.
Things happen that knock us off our feet and make us act like a different person. We start to focus on the faults and we just loose focus on who we are. It happens, it's life.
We then have a choice... We either deal with our mistakes, or let them take over our life.
I don't know about you, but I would rather move on...cause it's better off.
I am not saying that I don't get sucked in, because I do.
I let a mistake or a hardship take over me and to be honest, during it I do not act like myself. I acted bi-polar when I really am not. Once I let it take over me I couldn't let go of whatever it was.
One day though, I woke up, but instead of over thinking things I made a choice. I decided to be myself, goof off, and just have a laugh. Why be so serious when there is no need to be? I found that just because I miss someone doesn't mean that I should let it effect me being me. I've done enough damage that it's time for me to just step back and let go...
Even if I miss someone, it doesn't mean they are gone forever...and sometimes its better to just let go then to try to get them back.
I don't know how many times I will have to learn this lesson, but hopefully one day it will stick...
Smile...it might just be a good day(:
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